Gay Penis Massage

Penis massage

Some methods of hand work that aren’t known to men can be the highest pilotage for them. The main secret of hand work is that all movements must be unexpected and keep the partner in tension. Such methods are created not to hasten the attainment of orgasm but to delay the moment of ejaculation raising erotic tension. The necessity of full erection falls away while working by hands. It may be better if the partner doesn’t have any erection at all.

This article is about erotic penis massage and its peculiarities.

Let’s discuss how men masturbate themselves. There two ways of masturbation. A dry method and the one with lubricant.

A dry method

A man clasps his penis in one or two fingers in the important place that is situated under a penis glans. With each movement he shifts the skin up and down. As the skin can be easily moved the men take the penis as strong as possible. This is comfortable for them. The most pleasant feelings occur when the action takes place in the most sensible point that is called frenulum.

With lubricant

The use of lubricant helps a man to feel the same as during the act of copulation. During the masturbation a man takes his penis with his palm. The lubricant helps the skin to slide up and down the penis.

A dry method against the one with lubricant

Using a lubricant a man experiences more feelings in the penis glans area. When he masturbates without a lubricant these feelings take place in the point under the penis glans. The masturbation with a lubricant always feels stronger. But a lot a men often masturbate without any lubricant because this way is easier for them.

Intention and activity

Some people say that the difference between a good and middling sexual stimulation with the help of hands depends only on the wish of a person who is going to give a penis massage. Other people say that it depends upon skills and patience.

Traditional work of hands

Refuse jerky movements.

This part is devoted to how to massage penis without any lubricant. Some people when giving a penis massage make jerky movements. Men make it very smoothly when masturbation themselves.

The second possible problem takes place when a partner slows down the work of hands at the moment when a man is going to ejaculate. Some men ask to stop at once others can ask to continue the action for several minutes after the ejaculation. Some men want their partners to work to the last drop of their cum.

As you get accustomed to the action you can caress the man’s testicles with the other hand. It can be pleasant if you are kissing the partner during a penis massage. Some people say that the orgasm can be more intense if you stare at each other at the moment of ejaculation.

To choose a pose for a penis massage you should lie beside him and stretch your hand across his body to the penis. Ask him to put your fingers to the right point. Take his male-organ in such a way as if he did it himself. One of the most apprehensible point is the area down from the penis glans on the side opposite to the tummy.

In order to show the highest pilotage, try to rub the frenulum while moving your hands up and down. Embrace the penis in such a way that your thumb and index finger touch each other. Your hand should be in the same position as if you kept a cup of tea. If you fingers were a belt they would hook on one side. If the tips of your fingers touch the frenulum it may cause discomfort.

The second reason why your hand must be in such a position like his own one is that you may keep the penis too high or too low. If the man got circumcision the tracks of operation will stretch and he will feel uncomfortably. Ask the partner to show what position appeals to him.

Variations

Think about how to give the best penis massage not only when your partner is lying but also standing or sitting. It may afford pleasure to both of you.

Squeeze

It is possible that your partner will ask you to squeeze his penis stronger. Don’t worry about this. You can’t procure any pain to him. Besides you can ask the partner if you must keep his penis more solid.

Playing with testicles

During masturbation a lot of men keep their little finger far from other fingers so that it doesn’t touch the place where the scrotum joins the penis. It makes the testicles jump after each movement. It gives a lot of pleasant feelings. But if you decide to try this method for the first time, consult your partner.

In general you won’t be able to repeat your partner’s movements and actions if you don’t ask him to show you how he masturbates. Every man has his own rhythm and keeps his penis in his own way. Don’t be surprised if you’ll have to try everything for several times before you learn how to give a penis massage.

Jay Wiseman in his book “Tricks: 125 tips how to make a good sex better” lists some methods of how to massage a penis. For example, he recommends to pet the penis and testicles with the tips of your fingers for ten seconds. Then there follows a quite movement up and down the penis body. Repeat the exercise and add one quite movement more each time after ten seconds petting.

Masterly techniques how to massage a male penis

It’s high time to improve your knowledge and try to massage a penis with the use of lubricant. Dub your hands and the partner’s genitals. It is better to use peanut and coconut oil. Hands lotions aren’t fit because they soak very quickly.

How to apply lubricant

First thing you must do is to undress your partner. It won’t cause any difficulties.

The best way to apply lubricant is to keep one hand above the man’s genitals and pour the oil into it with the second hand. The oil will leak on the partner’s genitals. Let them be lubricated abundantly. But don’t use very much oil.

Different movements used during male penis massage

There are some variants how to give a penis massage. It is not obligatory to have erection. A lot of men can feel good during a penis massage without any erection.

Hands move up

Make sure that the genitals are well lubricated. Clasp the penis with your hand, squeeze it and move the hand up to the penis glans. Then change your hands and do the same movement. The movements should be smooth. Don’t forget to low down the speed if your partner is going to reach orgasm.

Hands move down

It is just the same but the hands move down from the penis glans. Such movements suppose the presence of male erection. Otherwise the penis will fall down.

The thumb at the top

Massage the place where the penis glans joins the penis body with the thumb-cushion. This is the most sensible zone.

An open palm is rubbing penis glans

Take the penis with one hand and keep it athwart the partner’s body. With the palm of the other hand rub the penis glans. Make sure that the palm is well lubricated. It affords pleasure to some men, but to others is doesn’t.

Open a bottle of beer

Embrace the penis with one hand and with the other hand enfold the penis glans as if it was a lid of a bottle. Make a rotary movement as if you are opening the bottle.

Stretch the prepuce of penis properly

There are some variant of how to stretch prepuce of penis:

The palm is from one side

Join your thumb and the first finger at the place where the scrotum joins the penis. This action will make the prepuce of penis stretch.

Variants with stretching

When a man is masturbating he tries to stretch prepuce of penis and lets the partner to catch on the penis with his thumb and cherish the testicles with the other four fingers. Sometimes the fingers can just lie upon the testicles.

Grinding of the penis and tummy

Penis should be lubricated and lie on the man’s tummy. Put your palm on the penis and then drag it to the man’s breast. Repeat the operation for several times.

Thumbs up, thumbs down

This operation may seem difficult but it is not so. There are two ways how to keep a penis when it is lubricated. In the first method your hand is directed right to the penis and your little finger is near the scrotum. In the second method the hand is everted and the little finger is near the penis glans. The ability of the masseur to change to position of the hands produces an impression on the partner.

How to give a massage under the testicles

If the skin of the testicles is elastic put a warm towel on it. Leave it for several minutes, until the scrotum gets warm and the testicles get soft. The movements here should be directed to the anus. In this area the ligaments, the muscular tissues and the nerve-endings are joined. Pressure on this point can give a very pleasant and sweet feeling. This area is situated under the testicles, between the testicles and the anus. The testicles are very delicate so all the movements must be smooth and tender to afford pleasure. Some men don’t like to be touched at this place of their bodies.

How to give the best penis massage including the massage of testicles

There are some methods how to give the best penis massage and some kinds of movements for the testicles stimulation. They can’t cause unpleasant feelings.

A simple testicles massage

Carefully touch the place between the testicles. Make sure that your partner is not against your action. If you can define what kind of massage appeals to your partner make it more often. During the massage of this area the partner feels like at the moment of orgasm. The men often prefer this kind of massage to penis stimulation.

Penis up, testicles down

Make sure that your hands are well lubricated. Embrace the down part of the penis with one hand and join the thumb and the first finger of the other hand on the scrotum. As a result the testicles will turn out to be protruding and the skin on them is stretched. Squeeze the penis with both hands and make the up movement with the hand that keeps the penis. And move the other hand to the opposite side smoothly. Choose the proper speed.

Grinding of the testicles

Join the thumb and the first finger of your hand on the partner’s scrotum. Press the testicles gently until they stick out. But don’t give pain.

A general massage

You won’t do harm to your partner if you move you hands up and down starting from the inner part of his thighs to his breast. You can start massaging one side of the thigh and then proceed to the other as if you walked on the road that had the shape of the letter “U”. The other hand can stimulate the man’s penis.

The highest point

If you want to draw off the moment of ejaculation you are able to do that. Imagine the scale with the notes from 0 to 10 where 0 is the absence of erection and 10 is orgasm. You should make such movements so that to keep the partner’s penis at the note 6 or 7. The longer you can keep the note the more pleasant will the feeling during the orgasm be. You should learn the peculiarities of the man’s penis on each degree of sexual tension and it will be easy for you to control the moment of orgasm.

Ready, start, relax

Before starting to give a penis massage you’d better knead the partner’s neck and shoulders because the tension is mostly concentrated in this area. It is a mistake if you think that only orgasm can take the tension away. Imagine how pleasant the orgasm will be if you reach it being fully relaxed. So don’t grasp the penis at once. Massage the partner’s back first then follow to the testicles.

The reinforcement of delight

Penis massage helps a man to realize the connection between the sensations he feels in the perineum and the sensations in other parts on the body.

Some western psychologists suggest to kiss the partner’s neck, shoulders and breast during the penis massage. From time to time stop the penis stimulation but continue petting the other parts of the body. During such actions a man learns to feel pleasure in every inch of his body while stimulating genitals.